eswindy Posted November 28, 2012 Report Share Posted November 28, 2012 Its been 2 years since starting I started up my APQS Liberty, I am so far behind on quilts, I have a customers on now and one waiting plus I have 5 of my own. The first year I was working on my home that I purchased, lots of work on repairs and lawn work. Being Single I had to relay on my Son and Son-in-Law for majors. The second year I took in my ex-husband whom was dying of cancer. Took a lot of my time running him to treatments and tests, and cooking meals at regular times ( when I was alone, I only ate when I was hungry). He lost his battle on October 17, 2012. Seems too quiet around here, I miss him, but I have to go forward and get busy with things that I let slide this past year. One I have already been working on and that is cleaning house. I had forgotten how having a husband around takes up a person time. Wow I guess i really did get used to living alone, I just have to get back were I was a year ago. My Lord is with me everyday to help me through this painful time in my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LisaC Posted November 28, 2012 Report Share Posted November 28, 2012 My condolences on your loss. I'm glad you love the Lord and can rely on Him! Quilting is fabulous therapy; I am also glad you have it to occupy your time! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bonnie H Posted November 28, 2012 Report Share Posted November 28, 2012 Edie Marie, you are such a courageous, kind, generous woman to take in your ex-husband and care for him at such a time. God bless you!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quilting Heidi Posted November 28, 2012 Report Share Posted November 28, 2012 Welcome back Edie. I know life hasn't been kind to you the last two years and it is sometimes hard getting started again. I've had a very rough year myself and I find that I have to just take it one day at a time and set goals for myself. If I have a plan I do much better at getting things done. I give myself the flexibility though in case I need it! I'm sorry for your loss, I'm sure it was a very difficult time for you. I know God is smiling down on you for sure. It takes a special person to take in somebody in their time of need and I know first hand how much is needed to care for somebody. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lisae Posted November 28, 2012 Report Share Posted November 28, 2012 Good luck, Edie! Like Lisa C said, quilting is the best therapy! Have fun and enjoy the memories of your loved one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoseCity Quilter Posted November 28, 2012 Report Share Posted November 28, 2012 Sounds like you have a strong faith. I admire you for caring for your ex..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Linda S Posted November 28, 2012 Report Share Posted November 28, 2012 Edie - you're among friends here. I'm so sorry for your loss. Taking an ex-husband back in to care for him in his time of need speaks volumes to the size of your heart. Many of us have been through rough patches and have had to haul ourselves back up. We are so fortunate that we have this place to come for help with machine or quilt issues, and it's just a great place if you need a shoulder to cry on. Of course, it's also great to come and share life's triumphs. I'm hoping you'll have lots of them soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Oma Posted November 28, 2012 Report Share Posted November 28, 2012 I've always said that just because I divorced him, it didn't mean I didn't care anymore. We just made better friends than we did spouses. It was a good thing you did for both of you. Something else I've always said is one can get used to being alone, but break it for even one day and you have to learn it all over again. You're going to be fine and we're here for you anytime. These people give great cyber hugs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IBQLTN2 Posted November 28, 2012 Report Share Posted November 28, 2012 welcome back Edie, I am wishing great quilting time for you to fill the void that caring for a loved one has left. You are a gracious, loving woman, May God Bless you richly!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Primitive1 Posted November 28, 2012 Report Share Posted November 28, 2012 Welcome back Edie, like Linda said, your kindness speaks volumes about your heart. We are here for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meg Posted November 28, 2012 Report Share Posted November 28, 2012 welcome back.... here's hoping your transition is smooth and soon you will remember how nice it is to some "me" time again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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