quiltmonkey Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 Oh Debbi, So sad; and it is very much a loss! I remember my miscarriage; it was so very sad and painful, too. Even after all these years I get sad thinking about that little child that could have been mine but was not meant to be. My sister lost a baby late in her term and she was devestated. She waited a few years and tried again when she was ready. Veaya is now in 3rd grade. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meg_marsh Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 I am so sorry - prayers and hugs........... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IQ'd Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 Had two ectopic pregnancies and it is very sad. Hoping for the best for your daughter and her husband. Time does heal and I am sure that when the time comes a little bundle of joy will fill their hearts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mswings Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 Debbie I am so sorry to hear that she lost the baby. :( It is a very traumatic thing to go through. Like Shana, I remember my miscarriage and it was very difficult to deal with. I hope your DIL takes the time she needs to grieve. Also men and women grieve differently. Please let her and your son know we are praying for them both as they go through this process. Hugs to you also for the loss of your grandchild. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
victoriasews Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 I ache for you and your family. The pain lessens but it never really disappears so my sympathies are heartfelt for you. May God hold all of you in the palm of his hand and comfort you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReisingStarQuilts Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 So, so sorry. I pray you will all feel God's comfort during this time of losing this precious baby. God Bless You!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Linda S Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 Oh Debbi - I'm so sorry to hear this. Blessings to your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Linda S Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 Oh Debbi - I'm so sorry to hear this. Blessings to your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Linda S Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 Oh Debbi - I'm so sorry to hear this. Blessings to your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sheri Butler Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 Oh Debbi I am so sorry to hear this. I know how you all were so excited. Sometimes we just dont understand why, but know for some reason God has a plan. I know it's not what you are wanting to hear, but after watching my neighbor give birth and losing that little girl at 17 days with trisome 18, sometimes the body just rejects something that's just not right. Prayers for their healing now, and prayers for a healthy next pregnancy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dtreusch Posted October 21, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 Thanks everyone. I talked with Justin and Amanda last night. She is off work for a few days, but is feeling pretty good physically. They are both quite upset at losing the baby. Justin was even more upset when the doctor told him that "it wasn't a baby yet". GRRRRR..... Sheri - You hit the nail right on the head. Justin said yesterday that the cause of it was that the baby just wasn't developing correctly. Knowing that is helping them, but it's still hard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quilting Heidi Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 Originally posted by dtreusch Thanks everyone. I talked with Justin and Amanda last night. She is off work for a few days, but is feeling pretty good physically. They are both quite upset at losing the baby. Justin was even more upset when the doctor told him that "it wasn't a baby yet". GRRRRR..... Sheri - You hit the nail right on the head. Justin said yesterday that the cause of it was that the baby just wasn't developing correctly. Knowing that is helping them, but it's still hard. Justin should have slapped that doctor! I cannot believe that he would have the nerve to say that. At 3 months they have fingers, toes and all organs are at full development. How incensitive and wrong of that doctor! Boy that really makes me mad. Give them both an extra hug for me! I'm so sorry they had to go through that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dtreusch Posted October 21, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 Good thing I wasn't there. I probably would have slapped the doctor for him!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lisalnewman Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 Life can be so cruel sometimes. I know the hurt and loss that a miscarriage can cause. I am so sorry for their loss and yours as well. You are all in my thoughts, Lisa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LinneaMarie Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 That is soo sad for you all! The good news is she is young and they will get preggers again! My doctor told me I had lost my baby; but had the good sense to send me for ultrasound first before the D&C. My "baby" is almost 28 now, and he's my ONLY one! Never could get pregnant again. So you can guess who is spoiled; even at his age!!! Your family is in my prayers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
witha'K'quilting Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 I would be looking for a new doctor for the next time she becomes pregnant! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bekah Posted October 21, 2010 Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 So sorry to read this sad news. Please know that I join in sending prayers and hugs to you and your children for peace and comfort during this time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dtreusch Posted October 21, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 21, 2010 Originally posted by sagebrushquilter I would be looking for a new doctor for the next time she becomes pregnant! Amen sister!! Justin was quite upset by the comment. He grew up in a Christian home and knows better. He told the dr that wasn't true. It was a baby at the exact moment of conception. Yah Justin!! Christian or not, it was a comment that was insensitive and uncalled for by any doctor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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