KathG Posted February 13, 2011 Report Share Posted February 13, 2011 Lisa my heart goes out to your and your family, Keeping you in my thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WestieMom Posted February 13, 2011 Report Share Posted February 13, 2011 Lisa, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rlhdesigns Posted February 13, 2011 Report Share Posted February 13, 2011 I'm so sorry for your loss Lisa, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. ((((hugs)))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cblevins Posted February 13, 2011 Report Share Posted February 13, 2011 Lisa, I too am sorry for the loss your family has had to deal with. Lean on each other.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave-Jane Posted February 13, 2011 Report Share Posted February 13, 2011 Just know many loving thoughts are sent your way - hope it brings a little flicker of light to your hearts. So sorry for your loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lisalnewman Posted February 13, 2011 Report Share Posted February 13, 2011 I want to thank everyone for their kind words, yes it has been a very difficult time for my family the past several weeks. It is heartwarming to know that my friends from the forum are sending their kind thoughts and words. I have been very lucky to meet many of you in person and have gotten to feel like I have met several of you just through online conversations. This forum really is like a big family. Thank you for your support and understanding, it is the feeling of utter uselessness and helplessness to help my daughter and her boyfriend and to not be able to ease their pain that has been the worst part, sometimes all we have is words and they feel so inadequate at times like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
appr216 Posted February 13, 2011 Report Share Posted February 13, 2011 Hugs and prayers for you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Susanne.Hughes Posted February 14, 2011 Report Share Posted February 14, 2011 Dear Lisa, My heart goes out to you and your famly at this heartbreaking loss. My thoughts and well wishes are with all of you. May the love of family sustain and help all of you cope at this time of grief. (((((((((((((( HUGS)))))))))))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DoryJM Posted February 14, 2011 Report Share Posted February 14, 2011 Lisa, I'm so sorry. This is the first I've heard of this. My heart aches for you...I hope you and your family are coping the best you can. Nothing hurts worse than the loss of a child. I'm sending you hugs. I only wish I could give you one in person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meg Posted February 14, 2011 Report Share Posted February 14, 2011 sending good thoughts your way lisa & hoping you find the stregnth you will need to get your thru this very difficult time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoseCity Quilter Posted February 15, 2011 Report Share Posted February 15, 2011 Oh Lisa, I am so sorry. The loss of a child is always so hard. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrazyAboutQuilting Posted February 15, 2011 Report Share Posted February 15, 2011 Lisa, I am just reading about your loss now and my heart goes out to all of you. I will keep you all in my prayers. Sending many (((((hugs)))))) your way. At a time like this, there is nothing that anyone can say to make it better, but hugs always help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Front Porch Quilting Posted February 15, 2011 Report Share Posted February 15, 2011 Lisa, I am also so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you and all your family at this really unbearable time. Take care, I wish there was something that I could do to ease your pain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lisae Posted February 15, 2011 Report Share Posted February 15, 2011 Lisa, I too am sorry for your loss. Good thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quiltmonkey Posted February 15, 2011 Report Share Posted February 15, 2011 Originally posted by lisalnewman ..... it is the feeling of utter uselessness and helplessness to help my daughter and her boyfriend and to not be able to ease their pain that has been the worst part, sometimes all we have is words and they feel so inadequate at times like this. I know... I totally understand, Lisa. Sometimes we just cannot convey the meaning from our hearts. I am so sorry! I will share a personal story. My sister, Tina, around 1997 had a near term miscarriage (her first baby). She went into labor about 6 weeks early. Sevren was born and lived maybe 2 hours. He was not viable. He looked normal on the outside, but some of his internal organs were not all connected together properly. So sad. That first Christmas, each of us five sisters in the family got the cutest tiny baby angel ornament for our Christmas trees. That baby angel ornament is Sevren; he always sits near the top of my tree. It's really a cute ornament with little wings and everything. That spring, Tina planted Sevren's Tree (evergreen) in her front yard. It took her several years before she tried to have a baby again. Well, in 2001, Veaya was born. She is perfect. Tina and her DH have raised a beautiful blond haired smarty girl and she's now in 3rd grade. Every year, Tina and Veaya have a tradition; they plant perennial flowers around the bed of Sevren's tree, and they talk about Sevren a lot, and that he is Veaya's big brother in heaven. When Tina moved from Alaska to Seattle area, you better believe she uprooted Sevrens' tree and brought it with her to Washington; no way would she leave that tree behind! :DThat child will never be forgotten and Sevren has remained Veaya's big brother in heaven all of this time. I send hugs to you Lisa. Maybe you can plant a tree, and you can plant pretty flowers around it every spring. I think that is sweet. Never forget. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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